Why Isn’t My Preschooler Talking Yet? 5 Simple Tips to Help Them Start
It’s natural to worry if your preschooler isn’t talking as much as other kids. But before children start using words, they often need to master other skills first—especially imitation! Imitation is key in learning how to communicate, and there’s a typical order that children follow.
Here’s a quick guide to understanding the process and five simple tips you can try at home to help your child along.
October 14, 2024
The Imitation Hierarchy
Children usually develop communication by first copying actions, then gestures, and finally, sounds or words. Let’s break it down:
Actions with objects: Before words come, kids learn by copying what you do with objects.
Communicative gestures: Things like waving or pointing come next.
Vocalizations and play sounds: Fun sounds like “uh-oh” or “weee!” prepare them for real words.
Let’s explore some simple ways to encourage each stage!
1. Start with Simple Actions
Playing together is a great way to get your child copying actions with objects. Try activities like:
Rolling a ball back and forth.
Stacking blocks to build a tower.
Driving toy cars or moving animals in pretend play.
By copying these motions, your child builds the motor skills needed for communication.
2. Use Communicative Gestures
Once your child can imitate actions, work on gestures. These are the first steps toward talking! Try:
Waving hello or goodbye.
Pointing to objects they want.
Clapping after finishing an activity.
Gestures give them a way to communicate before using words.
3. Add Fun Sounds
Next, introduce playful words and sounds into your activities. Try:
Saying “uh-oh!” when something falls.
Exclaiming “weee!” during fun movements.
Using animal sounds like “moo” or “woof”.
These are easy and fun for kids to imitate!
4. Create Imitation Opportunities
Throughout the day, give your child plenty of chances to imitate you. Whether you’re playing, eating, or running errands, model actions, gestures, and sounds. Give them time to respond without pressure!
5. Be Patient and Celebrate Progress
Every child develops at their own pace. Celebrate their small steps—whether it’s a new gesture, sound, or first word. Stay positive and enjoy the journey!
Kayla Birch is a licensed Speech-Language Pathologist who loves helping young children build communication skills. If you’re concerned about your child’s speech development, don’t hesitate to reach out to a Speech-Language Pathologist or your doctor for more tips and guidance.